Different Strokes : Handwriting

August 14, 2012

“Handwriting an Art as well as a Science”

Most of us spend a lot of time on understanding ourselves and knowing ourselves, our true inner strengths and weaknesses so as to make our life better. Wish an Angel from the heaven advising on Life Management. I am sure all of us have many similar feel in different magnitudes. As an Architects be very clear about our angles of looking at things.

Recently I met renowned Grapho-therapist and a profound Graphologist from India working upon handwriting styles making all the differences. His decades of extensive research reflects in split seconds of our conversation. How slight changes in grip, different strokes of alphabets, pressure of hand, curves and lot more affects the handwriting patterns in turn identifies the individual personality types and traits. He says these days graphology is used for variety of ways  not only by police and legal departments identifying criminal traits but also in identifying the compatibility status and a lot of trainers are uses analysis tools for proper psychological study of patients and behavior.

Handwriting can do a lot of things like suggest us turn into better Professionals, business associates, partners. It also mends our decision making ability, confidence and creativity. It applies to our attitudes, our strengths and weaknesses, these days handwriting is also used in identifying our spouse many people consider matching or reading handwriting analyst before taking their important decisions of life. It  enhances our risk bearing and risk taking tendencies, rise our student instincts, helps fight the negative traits in our personality, mellow-down negative traits as well. Conventionally it was restricted in the hands of few but now this Art as well as Science is used more often in changing our perspectives and reflects in our day-to-day actions and deeds he says.

Handwriting analysis can also help us achieve our Professional, Personal and Spiritual Objectives. It works on physical, emotional and mental well being and is a tool which also helps in understanding ourselves in our daily life discos and understanding the elements attached to it.

Handwriting analysis is one of the ways to understand ourselves better. It is as old as the first manuscript used by mankind to communicate himself to others.

This is one step towards our objective of understanding the qualities we would require to cater to Humanity in  ‘Human Infrastructure’.

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Collective Leadership

November 30, 2010


Leadership has become a very generic term these days used by everyone to flaunt himself before others. Most connect it to the “social influence”, Corporates also rates and values the candidates on their leadership qualities in interviews. A lot of us confuse leadership with dominance, bossism or holding the flag.

Now if a leader is strict, dominating, propagating his beliefs and ideas and philosophies of life on others. We would need a barge pole to maintain safe distance before as he gets unpredictable. But on the other hand, as also said ” Leadership and Learning are indispensable from each other”. A Leader is a very humble person, who is always ready to serve his team and is easily approachable.

True leaders have a desire to take others to the top with them, and are not afraid of competition. They are not struck with jalousie and panic when some of their followers become leaders themselves. If you are a true leader, you should encourage your followers to become leaders themselves. That is what a true leader is all about.

Leaders are mentors with a servant’s heart, You may be doing well and have a list of people listening to your advices, but that alone does not make you a leader. People are not numbers you can just add on your email list, down line or your company. They are people with dreams and goals like yours. As a true leader, it should be your goal to lead people to where they want to be, very well said by Sylviane Nuccio.

A Leader is a wonderful person who does not lead but invites every other person to lead in a collective team. This way the participation increases and we witness the marvelous and wonderful events taking place and that is how the impossible becomes possible. We can grow horizontally and vertically only when we are collective, united. And I wish everybody becomes a true Collective Leader to understand and participate in the process of Growth.

“To lead people, walk beside them … As for the best leaders, the people do not notice their existence. The next best, the people honor and praise. The next, the people fear; and the next, the people hate … When the best leader’s work is done the people say, ‘We did it ourselves!'” – Lao Tse


Connect the Dots . . .

November 27, 2010

On one side we talk of Supreme Human Beings and on the other we blame the current generation commenting they are going crazy and start doubting the future of our country.

A small exercise defines our aura of positives and negatives around us by listing down 10 names of people we come across other than our family members followed by up an down arrow corresponding to their names where Up arrow identifies the set of people with healthy, inspirational or motivating and on the other hand Down arrow representing the set of people with dominating characteristics, demotivating and subdued personalities. This way one can also identify and analyze their core circle and improve upon..Thus turning all the Dreams into Reality.

Now it also becomes important to connect to the source to which we are born. Our parents, honestly tell me how many of us can answer these questions: Where my father was born, Where did he had his primary education, Where did he go for higher studies, what kind of friend circle he had, Where was his first job and his profile, what salary did he draw, how did he grew in the corporate world establishing his legacy, When did he get married, How did he manage his personal and professional life. When you were young and were adamant how he fulfilled all your demands. So my dear friends to grow further we have to connect to the source first to lead life with a Grace.. Unless we are connected to our source we cannot understand our society we live in..

I met many students in Universities and Business Schools and to my surprise the spark to connect the dots was missing. This is a very concern area. No doubt everybody want a good start in their career and are looking high up in the sky but the basics need to be very clear in their mind, unless a strong foundation is laid we cannot build palaces.. How they would manage their career in the corporates.

We all have come with one expiry date which is unknown so this is the time Awake up friends and start inward journey.

““It has been the way of human beings that he wants to understand everything through reasoning. This is correct on his part because his awareness has not yet awakened. When his awareness is limited and when he is searching the proof of everything through his intellect, it is difficult for him to adopt some other means, which are outside the scope of reasoning”.-Dr N.D.Srivastava


International Day for the Elderly – 1st October

October 11, 2009

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International Day for the Elderly is dedicated to honor, respect and care for the world’s elderly. The United Nations General Assembly designated October 1st as the International Day for the Elderly, also known as the “International Day for Older Persons”.

Elderly citizen have all there time available for the upliftment of the society apart from all group meeting, monthly dinners, ex-professions meet likes to spend most of their time focusing all there efforts time and energy on all productive services run and managed only by all our Elders.

Senior Citizen Clubs and groups formed in the locality running all across where all grand parents come together to walk their way of life in the parks or municipal gardens during morning and evening time. There are many active elderly citizen participating in curbing the nation for a better tomorrow based on their practical life experiences and thus leading several NGO’s, consultant groups, managing and coordinating all cooperative welfare programs working out day in and out endlessly thus guiding the society in all walks of life.

Alas! The celebration of birthday parties clubbed together at the month end is really a very emotional scene leaving wet eyes reflects their passion and compassion for each other.

Most of the Grand parents welcome the day in the park-side with the morning walk, exercise followed by discussion over the national and international issues thereafter spare all the time for daily routine’s working out on the respective developmental projects they have undertaken meeting all the necessary working, appointments, meetings thus spending all their time in all productive hyper active day managing a balance in their professional and personal life.

They are my true inspiration with all the bubbling energy, endless motivation, self driven, never say die attitude are the true pillars of growth. It is rightly said, one is as old as he thinks. I salute to all the elderly people of the society sparing all their time for improvement and development of the society.

Did you Know? According to the United Nations, “one of every 10 persons is now 60 years or older. By the year 2050, one of five will be 60 years or older; by 2150, it will be one of three persons”.


A Thousand Salutes to Motherhood

September 23, 2009

From my collection.Author unknown………….

A baby asked God, “They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?”

“Your angel will be waiting for you and will take care of you.”

The child further inquired, “But tell me, here in heaven I don’t have to do anything but sing and smile to be happy.”

God said, “Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you. And you will feel your angel’s love and be very happy.”

Again the child asked, “And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me if I don’t know the language?”

God said, “Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak.”

“And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?”

God said, “Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray.”

“Who will protect me?”

God said, “Your angel will defend you even if it means risking it’s life.”

“But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore.”

God said, “Your angel will always talk to you about Me and will teach you the way to come back to Me, even though I will always be next to you.”

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from Earth could be heard and the child hurriedly asked, “God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel’s name.”

“You will simply call her, ”Mother”.

Author Unknown


The purpose of life is a life of purpose !!!

September 16, 2009

Heres an interesting story where one clearly understands that we can grow only in being collective, united and integrated in the real sense of word.

There was a farmer who grew superior quality, award-winning corn in his farm. Each year, he entered his corn in the state fair where it won honors. & Prizes.

One year a newspaper reporter interviewed him and learned something interesting about how he grew his corn. The reporter discovered that the farmer shared his seed corn with his neighbors.

“How can you afford to share your best seed corn with your neighbors when they are entering corn in competition with yours each year?” The reporter asked. “Why brother”

” The farmer replied, “Didn’t you know? The wind picks up pollen grains from the ripening corn and swirls it from field to field. If my neighbors grow inferior, sub-standard & poor quality corn, cross-pollination will steadily degrade the quality of my corn. If I have to grow good corn, I must help my neighbors to grow good corns.”

The farmer gave a superb insight into the connectedness of life. His corn cannot improve unless his neighbors’ corn also improves. So it is in the other dimensions and areas of life!

Those who choose to be in harmony must help their neighbors and colleagues to be at peace. Those who choose to live well must help others live well. The value of a life is measured by the lives it touches…

Success does not happen in isolation; it is most often a participatory and collective process. So share the good practices, ideas and new knowledge with your family, friends, team members and neighbors & all. As they say: “Success breeds Success.”


Humanism a bond beyond.

September 10, 2009

No Two Persons are exactly the alike. Yet, despite these differences, there is a common thread of humanity. If I am sure of anything, it is this humanity, which is common to all. So it is the Universal Religion, which runs through all the different geographical regions of the world uniting varied cultures, languages, lifestyles and living and thus respect all the national flags as we do for our own country.

This unique ability drives us over and above all political, defense, external relations but we directly touch the soul of our brothers and sisters across the globe. We are able to connect to them with our simplicity, honesty and open mind. It is the unconditional love for our mankind that we mingle with our counterparts in the other parts of the world.

The main driving force is the love, compassion which follows smiles which is a universal language. Smile wins heart and resolves all queries and doubts. The day is not far ahead when we will have no cold wars, no competition, no domination when we start introspecting all our deeds and actions.

Suppose we all go with vessels in our hands to draw water from lake. One has a cup, another has a jar, another has a bucket, and so forth, and we all fill our vessels. The water in each case takes the form of the vessel carried by each of us, but in every case, water, and nothing but water is in the vessels. God is like that water filing these different vessels, and in each vessel, the vision of God comes in the form of vessel. Yet he is one.

Art forms like Music, Dance, Theater dramas or skids is one binding force that connects directly with the spirits and soul of the nation. Music comes from spirit and so is Dance and Theater reflect the expressions rich movements winning hearts worldwide.

The time has come to collectively stand by for our evolution and win over the problems we are facing at the Global Front viz. Alcoholism Corruption etc.


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